Acts of Kindness

Kindness Update – The Power of Words

Often, when we encounter a situation where we could kindly offer our help to someone in need, we find we don’t have the time to stop what we are doing to help. We may have the time but we hesitate to “invade their space”. Or, sad to say, we may be so engaged that we don’t even recognize the need for our help in the first place.
There is a video that gives a beautiful example of what can happen when one person chooses to stop and reach out to help someone less fortunate and really make a big difference in that person’s life. It is very inspiring and also emphasizes the effectiveness and power of our choice of words. To view the video, click here:
As the video says, “change your words … change your world”! This demonstration of word power shows us how powerful our words and actions can be and the importance of using them to promote kindness. The following quote by Charles Glassman has been shared with us this week – “Kindness begins with the understanding that we all struggle.” – the young lady in the video who reached out to the blind man certainly had a heart for the struggles of others. She chose to be the hands and feet of Jesus!
This week’s entry is another good example of well-chosen words of kindness that made a difference in the life of the one to whom they were spoken. May we choose our words wisely and touch the lives of those around us!
This is a beautiful kindness story that I loved when I read it and wanted to share it. It was told by a nursing home worker who shared that she painted a new resident’s nails at work and, as they were discussing colors, she mentioned she wanted clear. She said, “The only thought that came to my mind was ‘CLEAR’?! That’s no fun.’ I asked her why she wanted clear and she said, ‘My hands are ugly, I don’t want to draw attention to them.’ I then carefully responded with, ‘Your hands tell the story of your life. They tell the story of love, of care and adventure. These hands have touched and held things that most people can only wish to one day.’ And with that, she went with the color pink for her nails. Sometimes what we are so insecure with, others find beauty in.”
Have you seen God today? If you see God at work this week, there are two ways you can share what you saw!
1) Be a blessing to others by sharing your Act of Kindness (no names please) below. Then check back each week to learn how others are passing on acts of kindness.
2) There is a Kindness box in the library on the window sill, along with paper and pencil. Share your God-Wink, perhaps someone else will be inspired!
Responses submitted will be shared here on our website and in our weekly email newsletter the “BLAST”.

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This is a beautiful kindness story that I loved when I read it and wanted to share it. It was told by a nursing home worker who shared that she painted a new resident’s nails at work and, as they were discussing colors, she mentioned she wanted clear. She said, “The only thought that came to my mind was ‘CLEAR’?! That’s no fun.’ I asked her why she wanted clear and she said, ‘My hands are ugly, I don’t want to draw attention to them.’ I then carefully responded with, ‘Your hands tell the story of your life. They tell the story of love, of care and adventure. These hands have touched and held things that most people can only wish to one day.’ And with that, she went with the color pink for her nails. Sometimes what we are so insecure with, others find beauty in.”
My family was the recipient of a beautiful act of kindness this Christmas when, on December 1, a good friend delivered a huge stocking filled with 25 wrapped Christmas gifts – one for each day until Christmas Day! Each package was marked with the name of the person to open the gift. The Advent Season for us was made even more special as we were reminded of the most precious gift of all – the gift of Jesus – that we would receive once all the presents were opened! I will definitely plan to pay this forward during Christmas next year!
Twice this week I have been the recipient of a small act of kindness. One day at Lowe’s store I needed to know where to find the area for an item I was searching for and could find no one to ask. Finally I saw a young stock man on a small delivery cart and asked him directions. Instead of telling me which aisle to look, he immediately parked his vehicle, took me to the right place, helped me check out what they had in store (what I needed was not on display), he went back to the stock area to check and even took me to other areas that had related items where it might be found, and did not leave me until it was apparent he could do nothing further. His willingness and cheerful manner brightened my unfruitful search!
Another day as I left Dollar General with my cart of purchases trying to juggle purse, cart and packages, a kind woman asked if she could help, took my cart down over barrier between, took them to my open trunk, then took the cart back to store making a longer task so much easier for me. A small act much appreciated.
The morning of her surgery, my friend was in tears. A woman on the hospital cleaning staff asked my friend why she was crying. Hearing the answer, the cleaning woman asked if she could pray. That prayer was a comforting kindness to my friend.
On the day before Thanksgiving, I received a call from one of my nieces who was traveling with her husband from her home in Georgia to visit their daughter and son-in-law in Maryland. She told me that the Lord had just put it on her heart to call me and let me know the impact I had on her life, specifically mentioning that when she graduated from high school, she remembered receiving a card from me in which I wrote “always look for Jesus”. She is now the mother of four grown children, all of whom she home schooled during their elementary years and who are polite, successful Christian adults today. She served in the military during Operation Desert Storm and has struggled with some PTSD symptoms through the years, but her faith has served her well to see it through. Her kindness to call touched my heart, but what really touched my heart even more was realizing how “looking for Jesus” had touched her life!
Kindness report!  After we decorated the church on Saturday, I saw a church member in Food Lion searching for flowers for church that were more “Advent” to fit in with the decorations, so she thought about poinsettias. On Sunday, she quietly pointed to the 3 beautiful poinsettias in church and said when she went to our guy Ben in produce and told him her dilemma- he GAVE her the poinsettias and marked them paid. She was so happy and I saw a kindness in action! Just sayin’ TGIC (Thank God It’s Christmas!) indeed!
While chatting with a friend of mine, she shared her recent experience at Family Dollar. The clerk had checked her out and when she presented a personal check for the amount, both clerks told her they did not know how to ring it up – she did not have the cash with her to pay for her purchases. The gentleman behind her asked the clerk to ring his items up with hers and he paid for everything! When she asked his name so she could reimburse him, he would not let her, and he told her “this was my chance to do a kind deed today”.
AOK (Acts of Kindness): making meals for someone you know who doesn’t feel well is so appreciated and is such a blessing, of course, for the one receiving but I think even more of a blessing for the one doing the cooking. Sometimes because of physical problems you cannot do many things but you can always cook for others, make calls, send cards. It’s so appreciated.
As I parked my car and got out to go into Aldi’s, I noticed two women standing near one another at the rear of the car parked next to me. They seemed to be totally unaware of any passers-by. As I got closer to them I could see why – they were deep in prayer – one of the ladies was praying for the other one very intently. As I went into the store, I looked their way and they were still in prayer. It was a very touching moment to me and one that made me wonder why we don’t do more of that? If we saw more people praying for one another in public, could that help create a kinder, more caring world?
For Veterans’ Day, I sent a “Thank You for Your Service” card to a family member who is a veteran and called to wish him a Happy Veterans’ Day; also sent a text message to my niece who is a veteran – it felt good!
The opportunity to spread kindness for World Kindness Day presented itself to me. The lady behind me at the grocery store check-out line had only two items, so since I had quite a bit more than that, I asked her to go before me. She was very appreciative and commented how every day should be a day for kindness – I had to agree with her!
The quote from Max Lucado last week made me realize our need to not only remember to be kind to everyone, but also to recognize the kindnesses shown to me! Over the past week, there have been two beautiful kindnesses shown to me, and I thank God for putting such wonderful friends in my life!
I recently mentioned to an old friend who I have not seen in a long time how much I love Mark Wills’ song “Don’t Laugh At Me” and the next thing you know I received the CD in the mail! Some kindnesses are really nice surprises! Now I need to pass it on and do the same for a friend!
I was walking through Target and my two-year-old was throwing a tantrum and another woman walked past me, smiled and said ‘Don’t worry. You’re a great mom.’ Just the encouragement I needed!”
I was awakened at 2:30 a.m. the other morning and realized that most of the power in our home was off as well as the outside security lights. However, there were several outlets in our home that were working. It was a puzzle to me (and a little bit scary) as I tried to figure out what could have happened. About that time, I heard the sound of a utility vehicle in reverse gear and looked toward the road behind our property; then I heard the sound of chain saws. It was then I realized we must have had a storm (which I slept through!) and there must be some tree limbs down on power lines. Feeling much better, I was able to go back to sleep. But first thing the next morning, I called our local CPW office and asked the person who answered the phone to please express my sincere thanks to the workers who worked during the night so that we could have all of our power restored the next morning!
This morning I stopped in Dollar General and watched one of my previous MHS students show the sweetest kindness to an elderly man with a cane slowly pushing a basket up to her register. There were several of us in line behind him so we were able to watch the time and care she took with her customer in spite of others waiting. She came around the counter and lifted his items onto the desk, then after ringing them up, went around again and put the bags into his basket and made sure he picked up his receipt. As he began pushing his cart toward the door, she said “ Have a great day”, then went to the door and held it open until he was safely outside. At least 4 of us stood and watched this slow but delightful interaction!
When it was my turn, I told KQ how I loved watching her in action, and that I would be sharing her kind acts on our church website. She always had a sweet smile, and it was great to be able to give her an ‘atta girl’, even this many years since I knew her in high school!
Chances to show encouraging kindness can come in the least expected places! While at my hair appointment last week, a friend came in and began chatting with me. During our conversation, she shared that it was the 60th birthday that day of one of our local trusty mechanics (who, by the way, has always been a God-send to me and my family!). That gave me the chance to go by that afternoon and surprise him with a goodie and a Happy Birthday greeting! I thank God for opportunities like that!
While trying to get out of a parking garage in Charleston the machine would not take any of our credit cards. A kind young man saw our problem, came over and used his card. It was accepted and was charged $10.00. When we tried to give him the money he wouldn’t take it. I am now looking for a way to pay it forward. Good people everywhere.
I was standing in line at Dollar Tree with only a card to purchase. Ahead of me were two customers with loaded carts. All of a sudden a store employee appeared and asked if I only had a card. She then opened a register to check me out. It may have been her job but I appreciated the kindness.
In the check-out line in Dollar Tree, I was behind an elderly lady whose credit card was not being honored as the cashier tried to finalize her $12 purchase. Stepping up from just behind me was a young girl who took her personal debit card and swiped it so that the lady could complete her purchase. The lady and the cashier said simultaneously, “God bless you!” Since I was next in line behind the lady, I thought “I could have done that”, but it sure was a beautiful sight to see such a kind young person reaching out to the elderly!
While shopping in Aldi’s the other day, I had the opportunity to show kindness to an elderly shopper who I met in the aisles a couple of times. She was looking for the tuna, and although I tried to tell her a couple of times where it was she was unable to find it. So I left my buggy and walked over to the area and helped her. She seemed very pleased and I felt good about helping her!
Last week’s Kindness entry about being caught doing good prompted me to share this story! My daughter, mother of two, teaches school and has “home work” to do most evenings. One evening last week when there was an extra amount to be done, she told me that my granddaughter offered to pack her Mom’s lunch box for the next day which she did. My daughter said the next day not only did she have her lunch, she also had lots of snacks and a sweet note from her daughter reminding her to “have a good day!”
I thank God today for the kindness of those who work at insurance agencies who go the extra mile to help their customers when they need it most! They could never be paid enough for the kindness they show to others!
I want to share this kindness story I read recently. It’s about two firefighters who were waiting in line at a fast-food restaurant when the siren sounded on their fire truck parked outside. As they turned to leave, a couple who had just received their order handed their food to the firefighters. The couple then got back in line to reorder. Doubling down on their selfless act, the manager refused to take their money!
My heart was touched by the kindness of a good friend who I don’t see very often when she told me the other day “You are in my prayers every night!” The way it made me feel made me realize I should be better at letting people know that I am praying for them!
Sometimes it takes having a crisis in your life to make you realize just how many people care. Following my recent mishap, so many people offered to help me. As a result of this, I am inspired to do better about reaching out to others in need – to pay it forward. I just wanted to take this opportunity to recognize the kindness of so many who helped me and to express my appreciation.
“As my eyes got worse, I mentioned it to my mail carrier as my box was down the long rough drive on my street. My post office box was soon moved up the drive right next to the carport! And often when I step out to my mail, there are 2 dog biscuits in there too!”
In light of the fact that the US Post Office gets a good bit of bad publicity these days, I thought I would share a positive act of kindness on their behalf. I recently went by to pay our box rental and had already prepared a check for the payment. I also had an envelope with me to mail and I purchased a stamp. However, I walked away and forgot to pay for the stamp. In my mailbox the next day was my box rent receipt with a message and a smiley face on it – the note read “I paid for your stamp.”
If you have stopped by Burger King in McCormick over the last few weeks, you may be aware they have apparently had some staffing difficulties causing them to be closed a couple of times when I went to the drive-thru. The other day I placed my order at the drive-thru then proceeded to the window to pay for my order. The young girl who had taken my order had the most pleasant and helpful voice. At the payment window, after I asked to be sure the young girl there was the same one who took my order, I made it a point to tell her what a good job she did taking my order. She smiled and continued with her very pleasant disposition. “Who knows?” I thought to myself, “that young girl could be the change that Burger King needs to turn their staffing difficulties around!”
I was in the local grocery store this week, and a very young new employee came up to me and asked with a smile if I needed help finding anything. I was so shocked, I told him I was thrilled he was working there now, that he obviously knew how to make shoppers feel welcome! I told him he made my day with his kindness!
A few seconds later, I realized I forgot to get the item I was looking for in the aisle he approached me! I went back to find the young man telling a new female employee about what I said about his kindness!
You guessed it, a few aisles later, that young lady asked if I found everything I was looking for! Again, I told her it was so nice to have helpful employees and how important they are since they are renovating and everything is moved around. She walked away with a smile…and so did I!
I’d like to share this kindness story about a woman who, feeling rejected, went for a long jog at the beach… sea foam kissing her feet with each step, white sand footprints behind her, and the morning sky bursting with bright colors overhead. At the end of her jog she turned toward the ocean and took several deep breaths, mostly because the sky, and the Atlantic, had momentarily taken her breath away. She stood there on the sand and applauded. Yes, she literally clapped her hands in recognition. Because this is the only response life truly deserves: an appreciative applause!
What a beautiful display of kindness we had from the congregation of McCormick United Methodist Church as people responded to the need of Coach Salliewhite’s Basketball Shootout on June 11 and 12! The donations to this event came in the form of volunteers, monetary gifts, and many, many of the items on Rico’s list of needs. That’s what happens when we are moved by the Holy Spirit!
What a blessing to see kindness connecting 2 of my favorite people. My friend has spent her life caring for and praying for others. She is now unable to do many things and must depend on others for things she used to do for herself. Several months ago, the gentleman who delivers meals to her, asked who mowed her lawn. With no family nearby, the answer was-no one. The gentleman said he’d be happy to start taking care of her large yard, and returned that afternoon with his mower. This angel, dressed as a friendly volunteer, has served the needs of many like me through his business, and now in retirement is continuing to be a blessing to many. And it is a blessing to me to know them both!
For Memorial Day, I found a small American flag which I took to the local city cemetery and placed on the grave of my uncle who served in WWII, returned home as a young man and spent the rest of his life staying with my grandmother to help out since my grandfather had died when their six children were fairly young. He was a quiet man and I never heard him complain. With that flag, I acknowledged not only his great sacrifice to his country, but just as valuable, the huge sacrifice he made to help his family as well.
Travelling on Washington Road in Augusta last Friday, I encountered a beautiful act of kindness as I approached a red light on this very busy four lane highway. To the right of me was a car that was stalled. Two young men in the truck behind it (driver and passenger) jumped out and pushed the car to an empty parking lot on the right, then jumped back in their truck just before the light turned green! If they had waited a few seconds longer, they would have been unable to accomplish that magnificent gesture! It made me realize the importance of acting right away when we get the urge to be kind!
One of the kindest remarks I ever received was from a nursing home resident who told me, I can see Jesus in your eyes”. I was feeling sort of proud of myself (too proud, probably!) until I realized that the reason this woman saw Jesus was because she was looking for Him! It helped me put things in proper perspective, and I began looking for Jesus myself!
I have been concentrating on “buckets” since last week’s Blast, and it has been a real blessing to me to observe those who God has placed in my path who are working to fill the buckets of others. It is my prayer that someone might make that observation about me one day!
My act of kindness happened this week at a Walmart gas station. While trying to pump gas for my vehicle, I was having difficulty with the instructions on the pump – it kept asking me to “insert smart card” and did not give me any other options (such as “skip”) so I could not proceed any further. A nice gentleman was at the pump in front of me, and I lamented to him. He came over and looked at the screen, after which he told me that when he pumps gas there, he always takes his card inside to be charged in order to keep from “signing up” for something unintentionally since they seem to keep adding more messages to the screen. I took his advice and did the same then and the next time I made a gas purchase! He was wearing a Police cap from a local plant, and he certainly represented his profession well that day!
Yesterday while having my home pressure washed and windows cleaned, I mentioned I couldn’t find anyone to dig a hole to get my irrigation system fixed. The owner of the company said I’ll do that, and he did.
I mentioned to the young lady cleaning my windows that I was too tired to cook the dinner I planned and she said she be glad to cook it for me. What wonderful, thoughtful people these are. Made my day!
The kind person in front of me at the grocery store insisted that I go before her. I only had one item and she had a full shopping cart, so I obliged, especially since I was in a little bit of a hurry – told her I would pay it forward!
Although we should not and do not need to do so, if we could, how would we measure the worth of our acts of kindness? For me, it would be the beautiful smile on the face of a shut-in who received a plate of leftovers from an Easter meal!
On Easter Sunday, a good friend of mine sent me the most beautiful Easter Resurrection rendition of the song “Hallelujah”. The words are so touching and the voices of the two sisters singing it are so beautifully harmonized. I want to share the link with others so they can hear it, too!
There it was – a lone shopping cart right in the middle of an empty parking space. I was in my vehicle and ready to pull off when I noticed it. A man pulled up and got out of a truck in the space next to the shopping cart. I waited to see if he would move it and either take it into the store or push it to the stall. He did neither, so I put my vehicle in park, got out and moved the cart to the stall. It was March 23 – National Day of Service – and I had felt I should be doing something to show kindness and helpfulness toward others – I guess this was it!
Walked into our pantry Sunday to make sure there were extra filled bags made up in case we had needy visitors this Holy Week. I was amazed by a sight of shelves filled with much needed items! A little birdie let me know the pantry elves are members who decided to use their recent Covid check to help others! Kindness to help others in the kitchen – talk about making lemonade out of Covid lemons!
I was hurriedly looking for a particular kind of Pepperidge Farm bread in Food Lion this week and found none. Stooped on the floor in front of the shelves was the bread man intently sorting and counting the loaves he had removed from the shelves. When I asked about the bread I was looking for, he immediately jumped up, said “I’ll get that for you”, then hurried out to his truck and met me at the check-out counter with a loaf I was looking for. And I didn’t even have to tell him I was in a hurry! I hope his employer realizes what a kind and helpful employee he is!
I was using my dolly. but still struggling to move my 2 large oblong planter inserts back around the house to the wooden boxes on my porch when 2 couples came walking by. Two strong men quickly responded to my request for assistance, easily picked up and carried the planters to the boxes and in a few minutes continued their walk. Their small act of kindness was a godsend to me!
My cup overflows with gratitude and love for all of the many acts of kindness that have been shown to me and my family. The love of Jesus shines through his faithful servants who take the time to reach up and reach out!
An elderly lady in the parking lot of Food Lion had unloaded her two small bags of groceries and looking around where to put her cart. Someone came along and took it back. She was so grateful for such a small act.
Traveling on Highway 221 to Greenwood a couple of weeks ago, I met an approaching funeral procession. Like the cars in front of and behind me, I stopped as a means of paying respect to the deceased person and his or her family. Similar to standing for the National Anthem, the act of respecting a funeral procession always gets to me. I say a prayer for the person being memorialized and for the family and I feel that I am a part of something that is truly good and noble as the cars go by. I am thankful for this symbolic act of kindness that is a ministry to families during a very sad time in their lives from people who probably do not even know them but are bound together with them in our common need for a community of faith and love. After the procession was gone, the hymn “He hideth my soul in the cleft of the rock, he hideth my life in the depths of His love, And covers me there with His hand”, came on the radio and seemed the perfect ending to a beautiful roadway scene.
My neighbor knew I was frustrated about getting an appointment to get my COVID shots. She came to my house, made my appointment on laptop for me, and then she and her husband took me to SELF to get it! They also bought me an ice cream cone for “being a good girl” and not crying when I got my shot! They were so kind to help me!
My Random Acts of Kindness Day last Wednesday, Feb. 17 began with me not having enough change in my purse to pay the tax on my purchase. The young lady behind me pulled a wad of change from her pocket and handed it to the clerk; she said, “here, I will pay it for you”. I thanked her and told her this was the day for kindness to which she replied “everyday should be!”. I couldn’t help but agree!
We have decided to spend our stimulus check by giving an addition to the tip of those who serve us. We will also contribute to funds that serve those in need.
At church today, my hubby ran and got our umbrella from the car! He stood there smiling when he heard me tell someone I had forgotten to bring it in!
A friend sent me a card … Thinking of you … she knew it was the week my husband passed.
Someone at church told me to come to this site and read all the previous submissions. What a treat on a rainy day! Made me smile!
When the check-out clerk at Family Dollar asked if I wanted to purchase a $1 box of Valentine candy as a part of their promotion, I told her yes, gave her $1 and gave the box of candy to her.
I wanted to share this kindness idea from a friend who bought half a dozen roses and handed them out to girls she knew did not have a Valentine.
I saw Jesus in the hands and feet of a daughter who gently and patiently helped her 92-year-old mother walk up to the table, sit down, and get her COVID vaccine as I waited to get mine.
I delivered church flowers from a Sunday service to an assisted living facility for delivery to one of our church members who lives there and has been quarantined for over a year now. She called later that afternoon to say how good it felt to be remembered by someone from her Church Family! It occurred to me that this could well be a ministry for any church to provide delivery of unclaimed church flowers to shut-ins!
To my surprise, Santa left a package for me at the church! In a beautiful box were two “Kindness” t-shirts, one that says “Kindness is Free” and another that says “Open Mind – Kind Heart – Strong Faith” (makes you think of the UM logo – “Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors”). I love them and just know that Santa had an elf or two who helped deliver them to the church, so to whoever helped, I say a heartfelt “Thank You!” for your kindness!
My nephew lives in a nearby city. He works hard and is financially secure. His heart is as big as the sea, quite often quietly doing for and giving to others throughout his day. While eating at a restaurant recently, an obviously homeless person came in, went to the counter to order some food, for which he had no money. Observing this, my nephew went to the counter and paid for the man’s food. The waitress put the food in a take-out container, an obvious sign he was to go outside to eat. My nephew went over and guided the man to his table where he sat and ate with him. My nephew is one who seeks to “do for the least of these” and is a beautiful example of kindness for others.
My daughter and I were checking out at Wal-Mart. The cashier had the most beautiful color of vibrant lime green dyed hair! My young daughter, of course, loved it, so we just had to ask if it was her real hair because it looked like it was, and we wondered how she got it that bright color! She responded that it was not – it was a wig – which was a surprise to us. We told her we loved the color and style. She went from a blank look to a nice, friendly smile as she scanned our items.
I’ve never seen such love and kindness before, anywhere! The folks involved in Jane’s Harvest on December 19 were aglow with happiness to see the many, many cars with items for the McCormick Food Pantry, donations of money, and cards and gifts for Jane Coolidge, who is now under Hospice Care.
Jane has touched so many lives in our town, including as active participant in Star Gazers, a group for those fighting Cancer. She has been amazingly positive with others, and there they were .. one car after another .. thanking Jane (All bundled up in the driveway) with waves and giving to the Food pantry in her name!
Her kindness started an amazing chain!
God showed himself to us over the last two weeks in the hands that made food and left it on our front porch, through the prayers we felt, and the encouraging words sent our way as we recover from COVID.
A friend was at the post office mailing Christmas gifts. The postage came to $4o.oo. My friend gave the clerk a $100.00 dollar bill. The postal clerk did not have enough money to make change. At that point, the woman next in line said just put it on my bill. What a blessing to my friend. PS to the story. My friend asked the woman her name but the woman only would give her first name and not her address. My friend became a detective and discovered the name of her benefactor. My friend invited her to lunch. My guess is that a new friendship will be formed.
Pastor Nels’ article on “Letting God Bless You” in last week’s Blast prompted me to look for “silver linings” in the midst of the difficulties this year due to Covid-19. Mine is that for me, my husband and family, our love for each other—our kindness and appreciation for each other—has grown during this unusual year, and that’s something for which I am deeply grateful!
One of this week’s Kindness entries prompted these thoughts about “Secret Santas” because Santa himself communicated online with us via McCormick UMC’s Kindness Link! You will see below that he was seeking volunteers to help him during his recent visit to the Town of McCormick. Barb Shelley, McCormick UMC’s Communications Coordinator, put Santa in touch with someone from the Humane Society of McCormick County – this Kindness Link came through to help Santa out!
This was Santa’s message: I will be in McCormick this coming weekend and am looking for some additional volunteers for Saturday. We will be set up to have a photo taken with Santa in front of the MACK from 1:30-3:30 PM before the parade and tree lighting ceremony. All the proceeds from the $15/sitting paid photos are going to benefit the Humane Society of McCormick County. Last Saturday, we did the same photo event for Greenwood County’s shelter and raised $530.
We are specifically looking for a photographer for Saturday, Dec 5, but have need for several other positions. There are also opportunities to serve at the Lake Thurmond RV Park in Plum Branch on two Fridays – December 4th and 11th from 1-3pm and 4-6pm and on Saturday, Dec 12th at those same times. Our goal is to raise $1,000 for the shelter and to help find loving homes for all of God’s creatures. Thank you! – Santa
Another Kindness message received was: While traveling on Highway 378 this side of Lexington, SC during Thanksgiving week, our vehicle hit some debris in the road. Soon afterwards, we were pulling to the side of the road with a flat rear tire. We were just checking on roadside assistance from our insurance provider when a car whipped around and pulled in front of us. It was a young man in his early twenties who said, “I’ve been changing tires on 18-wheelers all day long, I think I can handle one more before going home!”. Not only did he change our tire – he also called ahead to a tire dealership in Lexington to be sure they were open. With tears in my eyes, I said to him “Are you a Christian? If not, you should be – you’ve been such a blessing to us!” As we suspected, he smiled and confirmed that he is. We plan to send a letter to his employer to let them know what a wonderful employee they have! Acts of kindness like his make it easy for us to give thanks to our Lord and Savior!
I lost my phone while shopping in Augusta. I had my ipad with me and I went back into Sam’s where they have wifi and started looking with the Find my phone app. It said it was there and I was elated.
However, as I tried to find it, it kept moving all over the store! I was literally running after it when two young employees came up to me and asked me what I was doing. At that point I was ready to cry with frustration and they immediately got me to find the humor in the situation. It turns out one of the managers had had it in their pocket and he walks very quickly! Someone had found it and handed it to him. While the girls were showing me how to further pinpoint the phone’s location on my ipad, the manager went in the office and locked it in the safe.
By the end, I had my phone back and was laughing thanks to those kind girls who I found out later had taken part of their break to help me!!!
In the Food Lion parking lot this past week, I was approached by an elderly man who asked if I could spare $2 so he could purchase some kerosene. I gave him the $2 and he went on his way. Afterwards, it dawned on me, “I need a Blessing Bag in my car!” I will be prepared the next time someone approaches me for help!
The McCormick Messenger staff reported a couple of kindnesses shown to them recently: The McCormick Garden Club kindly donated one of their beautiful Christmas wreaths to the office. They also received special remembrances on World Kindness Day on November 13.
Traveling to Greenwood last week, a long log fell off a logging truck in front of me. The log landed sideways in the road in front of my vehicle. I applied the brake but was unable to completely stop, thus my vehicle rolled over the log. Apparently unaware of what had happened, the logging truck kept going. I pulled over to try to roll the log over to the side of the road so that other vehicles would not have to encounter it. A kind young man stopped to help and another motorist stopped to see if any help was needed. I thanked them for their kindness, and I really thanked God for His kindness in sending a guardian angel that kept me safe from harm!
A nearby neighbor who we rarely see and don’t know very well called just to say hello and ask how we were doing – she also added she would be praying for us. Her act of kindness touched my heart and prompted me to begin praying for my neighbors, even those I don’t know very well!
A kind thought on smiles! I have become fascinated with people who can smile with their eyes even with a mask on. Now I learn a “Duchenne” smile – unlike a “mouth smile” – is one that uses the muscles in the cheeks to lift them and create the lovely smile wrinkles around the eyes! How ’bout that!
I stopped at a gas station and was waiting in line to pay for a bottle of water. The man in front of me, told the clerk to include my water in his bill! When I thanked him, he said to remember to pass it on!
I was outside of Food Lion collecting for the McCormick Lion’s Club Christmas Basket project. A woman, with two children with her, came up and told me that her family got a gift card from Lion’s Club last year and she appreciated it since her and her husband were laid off last November. She said they have found jobs and wanted to help another family. She put ten dollars in the cane for others!
The McCormick Messenger staff report a kindness paid by a community resident who had a tree to fall on his house and neighbors and friends came to help remove the tree. The grateful man made a contribution to the faith community in honor of those who helped in his time of great need.
While shopping on Friday, I overheard two men talking several aisles over. One of them sounded troubled and expressed some concerns on his heart. The next thing I knew, I heard the other man ask him if it would be ok if he prayed with him. The man agreed, and the two of them stood hand in hand in a beautiful prayer. I thought how pleasing that gesture must be to our Lord and how much we could use more of that these days!
Several years ago, a house guest removed the sheets from his bed so that I had them ready for the washer. I thought it was such a kind gesture that I now always do the same. I do ask what the hostess would like done with the sheets because sometimes she prefers to strip the bed at a later date.
Out of the goodness of her heart, one of our crafty ladies at McCormick UMC is sewing Halloween masks for the young people in the Youth Sunday School Class! What a kind gesture that sets a beautiful example for the youth!
Pastor Nels’ recent sermon on the parable of the vineyard in Matthew 21 made me think about the “tenants” of God’s vineyard who came before me – specifically my parents and grandparents and how much harder they had to work than we do today to keep the family going. Things like cutting and gathering firewood, growing and harvesting food required much time and effort, and that’s just two jobs! You would think they didn’t have much time for kindness toward one another back then, but our hearts can remember plenty of that as well! Not ones to let any items go to waste that could be recycled, my grandmother, mother, and aunts made the most beautiful dresses, aprons, and pillowcases from beautifully flowered sacks that flour came in and often trimmed them with what they called “tatting”. These items were original and one of a kind and products of going the extra mile – a reminder to me that “Kindness is truly homemade”! I still have one of the beautiful pillowcases today!
From Jennie Brantley, JAG Coordinator at McCormick High School: My students are working on a special kindness project. We will be letting our McCormick UMC friends know about it soon, so be on the lookout!
We appreciate this kind update from our friends at McCormick High School: The fall athletic season is off to a great start. The students are slowly making the adjustments to the new norms in our school district.
My neighbors and a friend came to my husband’s aid when he had a medical incident while I was in Maryland and stayed with my dog until his brother could get here to take over. God bless them all and the First Responders and EMT that stepped up until I and my daughter could get home. Then his brother drove my daughter home to Maryland Monday. If all of this is not kindness, nothing is.
Friends of ours traveled to the North Carolina mountains this past week and stopped by our home to share with us some of the fresh produce they purchased, including mountain apples. Their kindness was such a blessing to us!
I’d like to give a shout out to the kind folks who are contributing to the ministries at McCormick UMC by choosing to sign up for Amazon Smile!
Coming out of the grocery store the other day during a heavy downpour of rain, I noticed a young girl coming toward the store with an umbrella over her head. As I drove out of the parking lot, I had to stop and wait for that same young girl to cross my path while holding her umbrella over the head of this elderly, handicapped lady as she approached her car and opened her car door. The kindness of that young girl touched my heart!
I read the message on the church sign on the front lawn today. It said “Plant Kindness — Gather Love”. Just imagine the possibilities of this message spreading as it is read by passers-by on busy Highway 378!
A kind neighbor provided transportation to the hospital for my surgery when no room was available on the Senior Center Bus and also to see unplanned additional doctor.
As we continue struggling with the pandemic, it’s good to see kind, subtle reminders of who is in charge. Waiting at the dentist’s office, I noticed that all of the magazines were taken off the racks to prevent the potential for spread of germs. There were only three items placed on a table against the wall: a kind message of gratitude to patients, a bottle of hand sanitizer, and the Holy Bible! Through my tear-filled eyes, I realized the neat ways that God communicates with us especially during difficult times!
I was out to lunch with a friend a few weeks ago and excused myself to use the restroom. When I returned she was at the counter buying someone their lunch.
My husband and I were out to dinner with a friend one evening and a police officer came in for a bite to eat. Our friend purchased his meal.
When a mentally challenged friend told me she would send me the money I loaned her for groceries as I drove her back home from the store, I knew she was a person of great integrity and honesty and that she would reimburse the money. What I did not expect was for her to place the reimbursement of a little over $100 in the mail in currency and coins! I received in the mail a thin, very lightly sealed envelope that contained the cash!!!! My friend’s innocent trust of the U.S. Mail to deliver the envelope carefully and promptly made me face the fact that I am sometimes critical of the postal service. I also was thankful for the kind postal worker who expedited the envelope properly and quickly.
A friend of my daughter tells the story of travelling on interstate at night from Florida to South Carolina with her four very young sons. When she made a stop for gas, she noticed the semi that had been behind her had also turned in. The truck driver told her he couldn’t help but notice her situation and that he had been following her to be sure she was safe. He continued to do so until she reached her exit in South Carolina!
We are away a good bit. When we are gone, our neighbor, who is a disabled veteran, makes sure that our trash bin is brought out to the road and then replaces it to the driveway after the trash has been picked up.
I have a long steep driveway and bad knee and hip so I have a difficult time getting my trash can up the drive. My neighbor takes it up for me each week. Last week someone surprised me and brought it back down after trash pick-up.
As is traditional in the summer, our kids and grandkids come to visit. We love to have them visit, but we find ourselves exhausted with the prep of snacks and meals. But, not this year! They let us know they would do the planning and cooking! They have been in their homes so long they appreciated getting out and enjoying the lake and someone else to talk and play with! They made all the meals.. and the real joy.. they picked up too!!
I consider it a kindness to me when a friend who is unable to drive calls and asks me to give her a ride, especially when I had previously asked her to let me know if I could ever help her in any way.
Jesus has been at the Food Lion parking lot! Going into the store, I saw one of His calling cards on the pavement behind some parked cars – when I came out of the store, the cars were gone, but the card was still there, so I picked it up. On it were the words of John 3:16 and “I LOVE YOU! – Jesus”. I remember someone else reported on the Kindness link that they found one of His cards on their car while parked downtown. It’s good to know He is still in town!!!
I read about a family out to dinner with a special needs child. The kid was acting up and the waitress brought over a note that said “God only gives special children to special people” from a mystery guest who paid for the family’s meal.
I was walking toward Sam’s entrance when a man told me there were no carts in there. He said, “Take mine, I will wipe it down for you” and he pulled out a few wipes and cleaned the cart for me! I smiled the whole time I was shopping!
It’s heart- warming when small children give us a lesson in kindness – like a toddler who, when asked by an elderly gentleman to share his lollipop, held it out to give to him – quite a sacrifice for one so young!
I fell down the steps at the mall the other day. I landed on the floor right in front of the store I was going to only to find the chain mesh door was down and the only entry was to go outside the mall. That was the first thing I saw at eye level – the next thing I saw was a very young couple looking at me with kind, questioning eyes and asking “are you ok?” and “can we come around to help you?”. Fortunately, I was ok and able to get up on my own. There being no other stores in that section that were open, there was no one else to observe my blunder (maybe a good thing for me!) – however, in the event I had been hurt, I was even more aware of the blessing of those two kind persons who offered to help me! I saw God today!
It was pouring rain when we left the Five Below store in Evans. The kind store clerk held his umbrella over me and my Mom as we left the store and got into our vehicle.
My girlfriend was down and out. When I went to the store to get groceries, I purchased some of her favorite beverages and dropped them by to her to cheer her up. She later told me they worked!
In a very small (7 people) socially distanced setting of strangers, it was noticeable that one couple was very withdrawn and quiet. Leaving, I looked their way and told them to have a nice day to which they smiled and responded, “You, too!”. Whether their silence was just plain shyness, fear of saying the wrong thing, or strong determination to be anti-social, it was nice to hear their positive response!
I’d like to give a shout-out of gratitude to McCormick UMC’s “Garden Angels” who keep the courtyard looking so beautiful – the kindness of their hands keeps us mindful of Nature’s Beauty – a true gift from God!
I recently bought a play doh set for my grandchildren at the Family Dollar across from the Food Lion. The cashier said, “Wait I can get you a much bigger one which is on sale for only 5 dollars.” She proceeded to go find it for me. She was so nice and went out of her way for me.
Those who are regular Facebook subscribers who kindly take the time to share messages of interest with those of us who are not deserve recognition for their kindness – recently learned of the terminal illness of a dear friend who has moved away from such a kind friend!
Be on the lookout for Jesus on the streets of McCormick! While my car was parked on Main Street, He left a light blue calling card there with the words of John 3:16 on it and said “I Love You!” – Jesus!
Walked into Food Lion and the woman in front of me disinfected a cart and passed it to me saying, “Do this for the next person and enjoy her smile!”
My brother came for a short visit, and like an answer to prayer, quietly went downstairs and spent a day cleaning the workshop and finding a home for all the tools which had sat untouched since my husband moved to his heavenly home. An unexpected kindness and special blessing.
I thank the special, kind angel who takes time each week to collect and assemble these acts of kindness for us all to enjoy! Amen? Amen!
I recently helped a vendor at the McCormick Farmers’ Market take her tent down when a storm came up.
I saw God the other day in a hospital elevator. He was a little Hispanic boy with his family who smiled at me and replied “Yes, m’am” when I asked if they were going to the same floor. I quickly responded about what nice manners he had; he smiled again. I then looked at his parents and sisters and told them what a beautiful family they were – then we all smiled! Simple acts – beautiful results!
Happy Father’s Day greetings take on a very special meaning when they come from the pure and kind heart of a mentally challenged young man who takes the time to make personal phone calls to every father on his list of friends!
I had been praying for God to show me how I can help someone. While leaving Food Lion I saw a very feeble old black man with a cane trying to climb up the embankment to the parking lot and kept falling back down. I turned around and helped him get up that hill. He was so appreciative and I was so blessed.
In a parking lot today, a handicapped lady was having difficulty holding onto her shopping cart while using her cane with one hand for balance and, with the other hand, trying to remove a large bottle of substance from her cart. When I asked if I could help, she said “oh, I would appreciate it”. She looked at me and asked, “Where’s your mask?”. I told her it was in my pocket – I had worn it but it began to smother me in the store so I had removed it. She of course was wearing a mask. As I moved her shopping cart to store it, she reached into her car where she had a bag of masks that she had made and handed me one that was designed to allow more room for your nose – just what I needed! Her kindness and thoughtfulness of others really made an impression on me!
Someone left masks in my mailbox with a note that said, “We appreciate all you do for us. We pray you stay safe and healthy!”
An angel in our community has been donating fabric, elastic, twist ties for nose pieces and more, for all of us who have been making face masks. If we needed anything, she would find it on line or wherever and bring it to us. She wouldn’t let us pay for anything. She went even further. When she dropped these items off, she would include, hand soap, sanitizer, wipes, biscottis and other snacks to sustain us. She has been doing this for over 2 months and continues to do this. She is a true blessing to our community.
I have an 82 year old friend who visits her “older” friends every night in her golf cart to give them socialization and checks on their health. Such a blessing.
The staff at The McCormick Messenger have continued to be the recipients of Acts of Kindness from friends. Recently, someone purchased paper towels, a precious commodity during this pandemic, and brought them by the office.
I experienced a restaurant waitress sharing her faith with a customer who is caregiver for her aging Mom who has dementia. The waitress kindly shared her similar experience and she encouraged the customer by telling her that God is with her and will help her get through her struggles.
In speaking with a family member recently, I was surprised to hear her say that her next-door neighbor had come over and mowed her yard which took several hours – this was the same neighbor who previously she often spoke of with words that were not so endearing.. It felt good to realize the pandemic has affected both of their hearts in a positive way!
A group of our “church ladies” are putting together bags filled with articles of necessity for some less fortunate friends. Two other ladies from the church have agreed to make and donate 18 face masks, and a donor who has a large commercial cleaning business has contributed bottles of hand sanitizer, Lysol spray, toilet paper, and paper towels! May God richly bless these friends for their unselfish and generous acts of kindness to this project!
I was leaving the grocery store struggling with 3 heavy bags of groceries. All of a sudden a woman appeared beside me and said, “Let me help you with those”. She took a bag and opened my car door for me. I feel sure she had a wonderful smile, but I couldn’t tell because of her mask.
I would like to call attention to the actions of those persons who organized and participated in drive by parades to honor students whose school year studies and activities were interrupted for the year and the residents of assisted living facilities and nursing homes with most compromised health circumstances who have been cut off from family and friends. They should not go unnoticed as we seek beautiful acts of kindness!
The McCormick Messenger had a kind person drop doughnuts by the office several times for staff to enjoy during Pay It Forward Week!
My Mother’s Day was blessed to receive a Mother’s Day greeting by phone from a friend whose Mother has been deceased for a number of years – one would think it should be I who called my friend who lives alone but instead I received a blessing by his beautiful Act of Kindness!
I mentioned to a friend that the store was out of popcorn. Guess what showed up in my mailbox the next day! It sure made me feel that I wanted to ‘pay it forward”. So I called a friend who is quarantined and asked if she needed groceries… she did!
Our Pay It Forward Day began with a telephone call from one of our nice neighbors letting us know he and his wife are enjoying seeing our Faith Over Fear cross in our front yard. He also let us know they have an early Greek Christian sign of the fish in their front yard, so we are going to be sure to check it out!
I anonymously remembered an old friend in a special way on Pay It Forward Day as that day – April 28 – was also her birthday!
Community and neighbors checking up on those around them and performing small acts of kindness for them whether asked or by discerning a need.
Sacrificial act of kindness — a granddaughter in Florida sent her grandmother in SC – by special delivery mail – a 12 count big roll package of Angel Soft toilet tissue because she knew her grandmother had found only empty shelves for over 4 weeks and was nearly out.
I received a message from a cousin that when she read her Upper Room devotional she thought of me and said a prayer for me. The fact that she did that was an act of kindness in itself, but her message to let me know it made it even more special to me! She also sang praises for the committee at her church who delivers the Upper Room to her home – another acknowledged act of kindness!
Visited a friend of mine today who doesn’t have much time left. This will probably be the last time we get to visit. We had such a great time talking old memories. We both felt blessed. I’m so glad I visited. We sat far apart on a porch and sent a virtual hug. It’s hard seeing those that are suffering or dying but worth it for you and that person.

I made phone calls to a couple of mentally challenged ladies who live alone to be sure they were ok during our current pandemic. My faith was strengthened to realize how strong their faiths are!

At the post office this morning, a kind stranger opened the door for me. When I thanked him, he replied “Remember God loves you and He is with you”. I responded with an “Amen”! His message sounds like a good one to “pay forward” to others on Pay It Forward Day or on any and every day!
I had been given a baby afghan blanket to “finish” by a widower who found it in his departed wife’s projects. He wanted to give it to a relative who was about to give birth. It didn’t really need much work … except to redo the ‘casting off’ row which was too tight. That was a task beyond me (VERY small needles needed!) but I called a friend who knits. She said — bring it to me and I will redo it for you! She did … and sewed the “Made by …” tag on it too. Now the afghan is done and the widower can give it to that family member as a special gift from his departed wife. Such a kind thing she did for me. Thank you, God, for friends with talented, willing hands.
It was shared with me by a friend today that once a week she and her husband order dinner from a different place to help out the small businesses. What a great idea. If we all do that we can make a difference.
After shopping for my groceries and going through the checkout line, a young man in uniform directed me to get in front of him. I thanked him kindly. When I began to pay, this same kind young man, told the cashier to put my total on his check. How thankful I was that kindness still prevails in this world!
At the Burger King drive-thru today, I was informed that the person in the vehicle in front of me had paid for my meal! So, I paid it forward by paying for the meal of the person in the vehicle behind me! I would like to think this chain might have continued since the line was wrapped around the building, but regardless of that, my heart sure was warmed by the act of kindness of the person in front of me!
Checking out at the food store, I encountered the teenaged clerk that I prayed with at her request a few days before. She indicated her evening had gone well following our prayer – Praise God, and may He continue to bless that young lady!
Today I went to a lady’s house to get a mask of which she’d made hundreds. She also gave me a small bouquet of tulips. She must have known I needed an extra boost. Now there’s a lady who addresses the bigger needs as well as small kindnesses.
A little nine year old boy wanted to help out during this bad time. He sold his comic book collection for some money. He donated his $9.00 to a local hospital. I think we’ll see many acts of kindness and generosity during this young man’s life.
I found out a neighbor had no hand sanitizers, gloves, or masks, and having spent the day cleaning out my bathroom closet I shared my “treasures” I had found.
Checking out at a food store the other day, I had an unusual occurrence. The teen-aged clerk asked me if I pray. When I told her “yes”, she asked if I would pray with her, so we prayed softly and briefly for her to have strength to deal with whatever was troubling her. She thanked me, and I left with my groceries. How beautiful to see God at work in the lives of young people!
It’s beautiful to see all the acts of kindness going around during this desperate time. Teachers reaching out to help students at home; people calling and sending cards to shut ins and asking if they need anything; I could go on and on.
On March 20 and 21, my daughter and grandchildren joined their neighbors who were looking for something to do that’s safe and gets them out of the house during this time of pandemic restrictions. They went outside and wrote uplifting messages and drawings on their sidewalks with colorful sidewalk chalk. Later they took a walk to see what their other neighbors had created on the sidewalk! It is hoped that others will become Chalkers, spread some kindness, and Chalk their Walks!
I have been so touched by those giving me a call saying they have to go into town and do I need anything. I have to go into town on Monday and have called others to see what they may need.
In the check-out line at the store, I overheard a customer compliment the clerk as she was checking out on how well stocked the store was.
I observed a young child holding the door open for her mother as they were leaving the store, then she held the door open for me!
I saw a chain reaction of kindness in my neighborhood when I observed a man who cut the lawn of his neighbor (a disabled veteran). While he was doing that, another of his neighbors came over and edged his yard!
Some years ago I started a practice of not re-claiming my quarter at Aldi’s when I return my shopping cart – I simply put the cart back into the stall behind the other carts, ready for the next shopper to pull out for use without having to insert a coin. In a hurry the other day, and without a quarter, I found the next available cart had been left ready to use with no coin insert needed! I hope that my very tiny gesture might have made someone else’s day the way someone else’s did mine that day!
I observed the generosity and kindness of a man who gave a $40 tip to a waitress who went out of her way to show extra special kindness to a special needs customer.
I had someone tell me recently that something I said to her years ago changed the way she looked at and lived her life. You never know what small thing you say or do can make such a difference.
Saw a woman struggling with the pumps at the “new” gas station and a teenager driving by on a bike stopped to help her…..
McCormick Girl Scouts want to thank the ladies of MUMC for a fun meeting mixing, rolling and cutting out dog biscuits – the Scouts will spread the kindness when they deliver the treats to the Humane Society….
Taking a friend that is ill to lunch….
Took my hairdresser a casserole so she wouldn’t have to cook when she got home….
A very special lady purchased dinner for the McCormick Men’s Basketball Team at Texas Roadhouse…